Mon-Jas Charan
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"Poena Vigoratus. Pullus cavo vix. Palma , est eternus"
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Post by Mon-Jas Charan on Jul 9, 2006 18:12:37 GMT -5
Thank you all ... She is sleeping better now that she is in her own bed. She is feeling better slowly. I hope this works.
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Post by kivaanzion on Jul 9, 2006 22:44:03 GMT -5
Glad to hear she is back home Mon-Jas. Positive thoughts for both of you.  |
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Post by Cara Drume on Jul 17, 2006 9:09:35 GMT -5
Okay, good news and bad news concerning my sister. Good news: She's out of the shelter and home with us. Whew! The bad news? Due to a horrible miscarriage of justice and a whako judge, the dad's got the baby.  They had the nerve to use her own journal against her and didn't even care about her side of the story. We're working on getting a lawyer so she can get Joseph back. And please continue praying for our housing situation. I don't remember mentioning we've gotta be out by the end of the month; and still nothing. So glad to hear your wife's doing better, Mon-Jas. Big relief. |
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Mon-Jas Charan
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"Poena Vigoratus. Pullus cavo vix. Palma , est eternus"
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Post by Mon-Jas Charan on Jul 17, 2006 11:23:49 GMT -5
Thank you all ... She tried to work this weekend, but it was 110 at the fair site and she took her self out of working and got first aid ... her meds were making her dehydrated ... the Entertainment Director has been an angle through all this ... her health is more important than the show ... Good thing is there is nothing major going on this week ... a good time to rest up.
UCJ keeping you and your sister in our thoughts.
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Post by himiko sabbrawrra on Jul 19, 2006 0:30:41 GMT -5
I need everyones prayers.. I just recieved an email from my husband and he is now divorcing me when he gets home from deployment... What makes matters worse is that my own family isn't supporting me on this due to their belifs and that I am the one that is wrong. Perhaps I am at fault. I know I messed up in this when I was younger but I can't deal with this right now. It's hard on me and I don't know what to feel. Im 21 years old and thrusted out into something I havent a clue on. He had to say this in an EMAIL.. not to my face.. and it hurts more then anything.
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JediKai
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Post by JediKai on Jul 19, 2006 1:03:40 GMT -5
Oh, Himiko! I'm so sorry to read that. It is really made worse by getting such bad news in an email. If your family isn't supportive, I hope you can find those who are. There's always another way to look at the situation.
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Post by himiko sabbrawrra on Jul 19, 2006 4:43:14 GMT -5
How is there?? I need to try to find another place to live here very soon. My job dosent pay much and I have no money at the moment,Everything I do get goes to food and bills.. im so upset about this.. and I really dont see a good thing comming out of it.
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Post by Jedimom/Cor-Al Gelkar on Jul 19, 2006 7:13:41 GMT -5
I am sorry to hear this Himiko.
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Post by Jauhzmynn Enz on Jul 19, 2006 8:49:08 GMT -5
Oh dear. I'm really sorry this too. An E-Mail?? I'll be praying for you Himiko. You'er right, there are always two sides to a story, and a family should be supportive. All of us will be supportive
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Post by himiko sabbrawrra on Jul 19, 2006 15:45:21 GMT -5
My parents don't believe in divorce.. they already said that Im a scre-up. That if I didn't have guy friends or my starwars that I might still have him.. and to make it worse he sent me yet another email making it even colder. Said I could take whatever I wanted but the computer he wants to whipe out the passwords so i dont have my friends use them.. Saying like I would take revenge or something. I've been upset all day.. it's hurting me. This is the worse thing that I never thought would happen. I feel like I wanna die and can't.
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Post by Jauhzmynn Enz on Jul 19, 2006 16:43:24 GMT -5
Sheesh. I don't believe in divorce either but I'd NEVER call someone a mess up because they'er going through one. My mom was divorced and it's how I've a half brother. He's a pretty ok guy and I've a nephew.:-D For your family to say you'er a mess up not only is wrong, it's not showing you how a christian should be or act.  I'm ashamed of their behaviour. They should comforting you and him instead of "shooting their wounded.'. People who act like that are hurting themselves, and unfortuatly, with the law of "Reaping and Sowing", the same garbage they'er giving you will come back on them 30,60 or 100 times. It's not a vindictive way I say that, it's just one of those natural Laws. Himiko, hang in there, don't give up. You've stumbled across some good people here that'll be more than happy to be surrigate family. |
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Post by Jedimom/Cor-Al Gelkar on Jul 19, 2006 16:55:54 GMT -5
As a mom, I could not fathom not supporting my son in whatever happens to him. Even if I did not like what he did I would still be there for him and would try my best to do what I can for him, hoping that he could bring himself around.
My family has a lot of divorces -- one brother has been divorced four times, another 3 and still another needs to get a divorce but won't do it. One sister has one divorce, but that husband was a child molester.
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Post by Jauhzmynn Enz on Jul 19, 2006 17:15:39 GMT -5
I can not like what a person is doing but love them unconditionally. Sometiems a person HAS to divorce because is actual legitmate reasons, not the "He likes fruit loops and I like captian crunch so we'er not compatible." reasons.
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Post by Ani-Chay Pinn on Jul 19, 2006 21:19:53 GMT -5
Oh, Himiko, that's all kinds of bad. I don't suppose he said why? Do you still have access to any kind of family support through your husband's base? Do they have any couselling for divorce cases? And I know they have things here for military spouses to find jobs; you might be able to get something that pays better? He signed the papers yet.
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Post by himiko sabbrawrra on Jul 19, 2006 23:01:54 GMT -5
Oh, Himiko, that's all kinds of bad. I don't suppose he said why? Do you still have access to any kind of family support through your husband's base? Do they have any couselling for divorce cases? And I know they have things here for military spouses to find jobs; you might be able to get something that pays better? He signed the papers yet. He hasn't sent me papers yet.. and As for a job on base I might look into it. as of right now my main concern is a new place to live/ I wnt be able to afford this place once he does this. He already said I can have whatever I want. Though I said if he wants he can have most the furnature. He at least has a place to live in the base barracks. With the income I get I have not enough to even live off of.. so I may try to get alamony if it's possible. Im not going to go to base to cry about this.. theres no point. I am going to have to live now literly on my own for the first time. I think thats what is scaring me more..wondering if I can do this.. Im horriable at handeling money.. and now Im going to have to learn really quick. I know I can do it. It's not going to be easy but then again easy isn't the real world. I knwo you all are family here.. but I cant help but think that at least you all arn';t going threw this.. you all have a place to stay.. I know it sounds mean. Im not trying to be.. but thats what I feel right now. |
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They had the nerve to use her own journal against her and didn't even care about her side of the story. We're working on getting a lawyer so she can get Joseph back. 
I'm ashamed of their behaviour. They should comforting you and him instead of "shooting their wounded.'. People who act like that are hurting themselves, and unfortuatly, with the law of "Reaping and Sowing", the same garbage they'er giving you will come back on them 30,60 or 100 times. It's not a vindictive way I say that, it's just one of those natural Laws. 