Post by Cem-Ji Pobroo on Sept 15, 2006 17:57:38 GMT -5
Schph Gochi, sorry to hear about your mother.
Mon Jas, I pray everything is going fine with you and your wife.
I haven't posted in a while; have been trying to sort through some personal problems. Bottom line, I don't know if I love my wife. We've been married 3 years this October but we've been together since 1994, 7 years of that time long distance; us living 2 hours apart. We're both Catholic (but not practicing Catholics if it makes any difference) and I know divorce is a sin. But to me, which is the greater sin? Being married to someone you don't love, or divorce? I haven't gone to a therapist or psychiatrist yet. I'm trying to figure out why this happened and I believe it to be I married her since she was my 1st girlfriend and didn't have many before that; we started dating at 22. Half the years I've known her was limited to every or every other weekend. And now I see what I really had wanted in a spouse. Its not like I hate her (it just doesn't feel like love) and she is great to me. I appreciate anyone's input and advice. Thank you!
Mon Jas, I pray everything is going fine with you and your wife.
I haven't posted in a while; have been trying to sort through some personal problems. Bottom line, I don't know if I love my wife. We've been married 3 years this October but we've been together since 1994, 7 years of that time long distance; us living 2 hours apart. We're both Catholic (but not practicing Catholics if it makes any difference) and I know divorce is a sin. But to me, which is the greater sin? Being married to someone you don't love, or divorce? I haven't gone to a therapist or psychiatrist yet. I'm trying to figure out why this happened and I believe it to be I married her since she was my 1st girlfriend and didn't have many before that; we started dating at 22. Half the years I've known her was limited to every or every other weekend. And now I see what I really had wanted in a spouse. Its not like I hate her (it just doesn't feel like love) and she is great to me. I appreciate anyone's input and advice. Thank you!
