Post by himiko sabbrawrra on Jul 19, 2006 23:01:54 GMT -5
adavenport said:
Oh, Himiko, that's all kinds of bad. I don't suppose he said why? Do you still have access to any kind of family support through your husband's base? Do they have any couselling for divorce cases? And I know they have things here for military spouses to find jobs; you might be able to get something that pays better? He signed the papers yet. He hasn't sent me papers yet.. and As for a job on base I might look into it. as of right now my main concern is a new place to live/ I wnt be able to afford this place once he does this. He already said I can have whatever I want. Though I said if he wants he can have most the furnature. He at least has a place to live in the base barracks. With the income I get I have not enough to even live off of.. so I may try to get alamony if it's possible. Im not going to go to base to cry about this.. theres no point. I am going to have to live now literly on my own for the first time. I think thats what is scaring me more..wondering if I can do this.. Im horriable at handeling money.. and now Im going to have to learn really quick. I know I can do it. It's not going to be easy but then again easy isn't the real world.
I knwo you all are family here.. but I cant help but think that at least you all arn';t going threw this.. you all have a place to stay.. I know it sounds mean. Im not trying to be.. but thats what I feel right now.
